|
|
Post by buliebuse on Jan 24, 2007 10:48:23 GMT
Hi Guys
Might be abit quiet in the future(No rounds of applause please)
I had a phonecall from my dearest & nearest best friend yesterday.He stayed with us for Xmas as I didn't want him to be by himself - he lost his wife(&life-long companion) through cancer in October.
He was given his DS1500 - for those of you who don't know it's a passport, one way ticket to heaven.
Told my children last night & they both asked could they write Uncle Simon a letter. Yes I said & I'll post it for you. I came across Beths letter this morning that is waiting to be posted , it reads as follows & shows that not all children are ASBOs waiting to happen:
Dear Uncle Simon
You,ve been a superb friend & you've given us the spark of intelligence!I cant believe you're going away but I know you've had a great life & a fantastic Christmas.
This letter is folded in a special way, sorry if you can't open it.
I'd like to thank you for the book on advertising, I will remember you by it & keep it forever & ever.
I hope you leave the world with a smile on your face knowing we all loved you so much.
Love Bethany
JU
|
|
|
|
Post by temwani on Jan 24, 2007 21:41:16 GMT
Ju,
So sorry - my thoughts are with you - but what a great letter. Out of the mouths of babes you hear the real truths. I lost my mum last year and whilst we weren't close it has affected me greatly.
Geri
|
|
|
|
Post by bulieboerboels on Jan 24, 2007 21:56:58 GMT
Hi Julie so sorry to hear of that your daughter sounds like a very sensitive young lady.You must be very proud of her.Regards Paul.
|
|
|
|
Post by mayahund on Jan 24, 2007 22:04:32 GMT
So sorry to hear about your (and your familys) great loss.Try to see the positive in the fact that atleast you and your family gave him a fond memory of his last x-mas, to take with him on his journey. X-mas is such a horrible time for many people and to few "dares" to invite the lonely people in since it's supposed to be a "family" holiday.
No 7 squadron, Rhodesian airforce, has a saying that goes; "Forsake not an old friend; for the new is not comparable to him: A new friend is as a new wine; when it's old thou shalt drink it with pleasure."
Weep, scream and curse, but remember - he would have prefered you all having good times, with him joining you in your thoughts.
Ewa
|
|
|
|
Post by buliebuse on Jan 25, 2007 8:27:48 GMT
Thank you all for your warmest thoughts & words.
Am hoping to visit on Saturday - but I suppose understandably he's given up already after talking at length with him last night.
The phrase 'If I were a dog I'd be able to be put to sleep & keep my dignity intact' was used.
Unfortunately he has no children nor living parents etc.
I shall probably give up work (what little I do) & go & stay.
Once again many thanks
Ju
|
|
|
|
Post by mayahund on Jan 25, 2007 13:29:58 GMT
Ju!
I think most people give up for a time when they first get the diagnozis, then spirits awaken when he feels the love from friends and he will start thinking. So don't give up on him just yet.
He might be an "old dog", but they also can surprise us sometimes.
Ewa
|
|
|
|
Post by temwani on Jan 25, 2007 21:22:32 GMT
Ju,
I do believe in the after life and that many things are pre-ordained. We may think that we are in control of our lives but I think things happen for a reason. Many couples who have been together a long time go within 6 months of each other and the hardest thing for us is to let them go with dignity. In the end your friend will make the best decision for him and that may be to not fight or it might be to take a new run at life. Be with him and enjoy the time you have. All of us are thinking of you and our thoughts (and prayers for those of us who believe) will hopefully help.
Take care
Geri
|
|
|
|
Post by bulieboerboels on Jan 27, 2007 15:27:41 GMT
Please pass on our regards to your friend Julie although we have never met he must be an exceptional human being to have you as a friend and you are lucky to know him.Regards Paul.
|
|
|
|
Post by buliebuse on Jan 28, 2007 14:08:55 GMT
Simon 'passed away' last night.
Ju
|
|
|
|
Post by mayahund on Jan 28, 2007 14:22:49 GMT
So sorry for you all Ju.
Ewa
|
|
|
|
Post by temwani on Jan 28, 2007 16:09:43 GMT
Ju,
So sorry and words can not express thoughts at this time - but in Heaven he will be at peace with the angels and all his loved ones. He will also watch over you and at your worst and best times he will be beside your side.
Thinking of you
Geri
|
|
|
|
Post by Shaun Eric Ewing on Jan 28, 2007 16:22:19 GMT
So sorry for you and your family.
Our condolances
Anne and Shaun
|
|
|
|
Post by buliebuse on Feb 5, 2007 13:50:53 GMT
Just a quote I read that made me smile
Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive & well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways,chocolate in one hand- Martini in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out & screaming WOO HOO - What a ride!
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, BUT the moments that take our breath away.
Ju
|
|
|
|
Post by bulieboerboels on Feb 10, 2007 15:21:24 GMT
Hi Julie that sums it up pretty well.Regards Paul.
|
|
